Practice · March 2026
Why Do We Masturbate the Same Way for Years?
Habit is efficient, and efficiency is the enemy of exploration. On the quiet narrowing of a personal repertoire.
9 min read →
The Journal
Essays, research explained, and conversations about the way we understand our own pleasure.
Practice · March 2026
Habit is efficient, and efficiency is the enemy of exploration. On the quiet narrowing of a personal repertoire.
9 min read →
Pleasure
The vocabulary problem at the center of sexual wellbeing — and what becomes possible once you can name what you feel.
March 2026 · 7 min
Arousal
Context, timing, mood, and stimulus: the variables most people never track.
February 2026 · 11 min
Culture
Between the joke and the clinical term, there is almost no usable language. That gap is not accidental.
February 2026 · 8 min
Practice
What changes when you treat it like something you get better at.
January 2026 · 6 min
Science
Attention, physiology, and the measurable narrowing of the field.
January 2026 · 12 min
Technology
Beyond the device: sensing, feedback, habituation, and what design owes the body.
December 2025 · 10 min