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Essays, research explained, and conversations about the way we understand our own pleasure.

Practice · March 2026

Why Do We Masturbate the Same Way for Years?

Habit is efficient, and efficiency is the enemy of exploration. On the quiet narrowing of a personal repertoire.

9 min read →

Pleasure

What Is Pleasure Literacy?

The vocabulary problem at the center of sexual wellbeing — and what becomes possible once you can name what you feel.

March 2026 · 7 min

Arousal

Understanding Your Arousal Patterns

Context, timing, mood, and stimulus: the variables most people never track.

February 2026 · 11 min

Culture

The Problem With How We Talk About Masturbation

Between the joke and the clinical term, there is almost no usable language. That gap is not accidental.

February 2026 · 8 min

Practice

Can Self-Pleasure Be a Practice?

What changes when you treat it like something you get better at.

January 2026 · 6 min

Science

What Happens to Awareness When We Become Aroused?

Attention, physiology, and the measurable narrowing of the field.

January 2026 · 12 min

Technology

The Future of Pleasure Technology

Beyond the device: sensing, feedback, habituation, and what design owes the body.

December 2025 · 10 min

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